Desi Lolli Confessions 411-420

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411: Idi pakka happy scenario. Last few days nundi ee page lo confessions chadivi nenu na friends maku jarigina negetive scenarios gurinchi discuss chesam. The point is negative news eh positive news kante ekkuva highlight avtayi.There are many many +ve scenarios too. Cut cheste, na positive case entante. Item rajalani kalisina matrimony lo ne final ga I found a diamond. Madi oka middle class family. Andari lage oppu soppu chesi nanna US pamperu. Abbayi ki ok cheppenu kani ammo next expectations ento..? Enta abbayi katnam oddu anna, pelli ela cheyamantaro.? Idanta na mind lo nadustu.. tension padutu unnanu. I always had this idea to get married with my own expenses by sharing it with my fiance which gives zero burden to both our families. They dont deserve all the pressure just because I am a girl child. My man is aware of this and he supports it. Amma eppudu anedi, nannu enta tension pedtunnav ivanni oppukune abbayi/family dorakatam kashtam ani.Ma family valla family ni kalisanka. Ma amma/nanna intiki vachi cheppana vishayam. Pilla ni manam istunnama? vallu istunnara? Ardam katledu beta. All they said was “ma abbayi ni baga chuskunte chalu. Mee ammayi inka ma ammayi”. Pelli gudilo chesina parledu register marriage chesina parledu. Ammayi abbayi ki nachinattu cheyandi.. I m getting married soon after every discussion my father in law calls and confirms “Amma nuvvu happy eh na.?” I have my family extended now with new set of parents.! the guy is sharing all the wedding expenses with me. Its not just expenses, we share our responsibilities too.! Also the tremendous support I get from my man by all means made me have no cold feet to get married any more. Another note, na batch lo most of us ended up in arranged married and they turned out to be perfect. Arrange married lo love untunda.? Undada.? Anna question useless.! The point is we just have to hold tight until we find the right one. I wish all the best to all the single ladies and men out there..!

412: My life changing experience I reached out to a girl from matrimony site. In the first conversation itself she was acting weird acting like my girlfriend without even seeing me. I straight away said to her we need to meet and parents need to give green signal before moving forward. I saw the girl in FaceTime she was okay so I thought let’s meet her ani sometimes phone lo okala untaru actual okala untaru..I went to her place met her frankly I did not like her in all ways. I came to see her in the afternoon so in the night when dropping at her place in the car she acted like a hooker hug cheskuntundhi kiss pedthadhi..naku flight undhi repu chepina she wasn’t listening spend some more time ani antadhi..I don’t like evani before committing cheppina she wasn’t going out of my car. Finally after 2-3 hrs she left my car. Next day I said to my parents I did not like her ani..I was very strong anamata China mistake naa side jargina life long I need to bear her ani..

413: Bhayya, Naa confession enti ante I have been in US for 7 years on F1, right now I am doing CPT and my age is 29 my parents looking for matches but my situation is not financially stable because of the things I have done in the past so I want to marry a girl who is already in US on a visa or something. I am maintaining a matrimony profile for the same and I am getting quite a few matches but I am not been able to make it work problem enti ante as I said I am not financial stable because of things I have done in the past like gambling, bad credit history etc.. but I want to settle down marrying a girl and having her company who can be my supportive as life partner so that I can change my life for good… because of this problem I am not been able to express myself whenever I get a match, I feel like do I have to suffer like this forever? Is it always like you have to be in a good status? Can’t it be like get a life partner and it change your life??

414: Coming straight to the point, I am writing this confession because lot of girls come to USA and fall in love for first time with a guy and because we are overseas, emotional dependency perigipothadi. I was 25 and he was 23, he had a toxic childhood, and used to share his childhood trauma with me. I always thought he was so mature and sensitive to His childhood that he is very responsible now. But eventually ardamindi entante, he used his childhood trauma story on every girl to get them to like him, In fact, he got a girl pregnant while we did not completely break up, even though I offered to support through this phase, he decided to sail both the boats at once with out our knowledge. When ever I tried to move on he tried to bring me back. Please dont fall for this losers. Incapable men during your masters. He was a coward, always giving up on slightest struggles. I got rid of him with great difficulty, eventually an arranged marriage worked for him(which will usually do because its the easiest thing no need of efforts). He was the most selfish and brutal person I have met. Please focus on red signal’s girls. Think with your mind not heart

415: Nadi oka variety situation. Evariki chepukovalo ardam kaka ikada confess chesthuna. Nako tuniga tuniga frnd undi, ante chinapati school frnd anamata. full close. Btech ayaka MS ki US vacham, kastapadi chaduvkunam, manchi jobs techukunam. Well settled with nice jobs and pay. Tanu nanu full caring chupisthadi, na life lo best decisions anni tanatho discuss chesi theskunave. Anni bane unai intlo valu marriage, pelli chupulu ani start chesaru. Finally, tanatho nuvante istam ani chepesa. Gattiga navvesi urukundi. Idi weekend jarigindi, aa next week antha nenu call cheyaledu guilt tho, anavsaramga istam ani chepana, tana manasulo emundo telikunda ani, Tanu matram next weekend, call chesi em jaraganattu, enti full busy aipoyav asal, phone ledu, msg ledu ani chala casual ga matladindi. Nenu full shock enti intha normal undi ani. Mali oka couple weeks taruvata same love topic thesthe same scene repeat, topic divert chestadi. Antha normal bane matladathadi. Sare tanaki nenu istam ledo emo anukoni, bayata matches chudatam start chesa. Epdu phone chesina normal catch up ayaka na matches gurinchi pakka aduguthadi, em levu ante, cha.. anthele secrets maintain chesthunava na degara antadi, sarele ani naku nachina profiles chupisthe, marriage anedhi lifelong untadi, its not something you can change after some time, baga alochinchi decision thesko antadi. Oka 3 or 4 profiles chupincha, aa ammayiki idi ledu, adi ledu ani chepi, nenu neku chepedi enduku ardam avatledo naku ardam kavatatledu anesthadi. Aa ammayi vishayaniki vasthe vala intlo valu enni samandalu techina edokati chepi reject chesthuntadi. Asalu aa ammayi manasulo emundo ela telusukovalo ardam aithaledu.

416: I’ve been reading a lot of negative energy posts related to matrimony and alliance. I wanted to share my experience. I came across the guy via matrimony. We realized we spoke to each other in the past. Abbai Chala jovial untadu and has a good heart. We shared good energy and couple of months matladkunam. We met each other and enjoyed each other’s company kuda. For unmentionable reasons and with future goals in mind we decided not to go ahead. Though we liked each other in the long run maku set avadhu ani mutual ga ne no ankunam. I still respect the guy and I’m sure it is the same from the other end. It was one euphoric experience. Point to note enti ante.. if we keep an open mind and are honest about things then the “matrimony market” out there might become a better place for us. Communication Chala important. Not only what u tell but how you tell it kuda. Atla ani soap eshi cheppakunda decent ga communicate cheskunte it is good. Impress cheyniki chudakunda manam mana laga unte better manaki manchi future partner dorkutharu ani chepi sign off chesthuna ! Good luck to the ones who are on the quest of finding their future partner!

417: Idhi love/pelli confession kaadu. Evaritho nu share cheyani oka feeling. Life lo peddaga goals leni vallalo nenu okadini. Let it happen (chuddam le) anukone category. Adrustam kodhi masters complete chesa, full time vachindi(maree beebatsam ina salary kuda kaadu) . Kani naaku india vellipovali ane feeling chala gattiga undhi. Ala ani parents tho undadaniki kaadu. Naaku india lo places thiragali ane korika (ala ani baaga dabbulu unnay anukunnaru emo, antha scene ledhu). US ki enduko connect avvaledhu nenu. May be explore cheyakapovadam vallano, bhayam vallano telidhu gani.. India ne happy place naaku. Vichitram entante.. ela sampadinchali ane thoughts lev gani, pelli cheskunnaka vache ammay ni ela chuskovalo ane thoughts matram pushkalam ga unnay. Asala naa doubts enti ante, naa lanti vallu untara??peddaga career goals lekunda, ekkuva dabbulu lekapoina happy ga undali anukone vallu? PS. Idhi page lo post chesthe kinda comments lo naa lanti vallu evarina unnaru emo ani telusukuni konchem bharosa tho unta.

418: 2018 lo ochanu US..for a few months kotha kada bane untadi kotha batch of friends kotha place you know ah “kotha” ane feeling kodhi rojulu bane undi..ah tarvatha start ayayi godavalu back bitching etc etc..ikkada ila undi homesick ayi baga koncham affection chupiyagane danne prema anukuni proposal accept chesanu..oka 3-4 months antha bane undi ah tarvatha soo much physical and mental abusive. Idantha kuda love anukuni oka 18months alaa oorchukuna because i was soo insecure that ikkada nak inka evaru leru ani..but that physical abuse got worse over time. So inka i finally decided to get out of it..and breakup cheskunaka it wasnt easy for me coz i was alone. Its been over a year now. And inka i was sick of men..i dint want anybody in my life..but ammailandarki untadi kada chinapati nunchi fantasies untai kada..kaboye vadu ala undali ila undali ani..soo alaa now im ready for another relationship. But ipudu evaru antha easy ga dorakatle..life is being soo complicated. Mana chinnapati laga alaa cute innocent love. Funny ga flirt cheskune la enduko nak evaru doraktledu..i dont know now but now siggu odilesi nene evaraina abbai ki msg chestuna kontha mandi spam anukuntnaru konthamandi physical ga edo expect chestunaru..im soo done with life!

419: Na life lo jarigindi ekada share cheskovalo teliyaka ikada share cheskuntuna. Nenu thanani first meet ayindi b-tech freshers party. He is very active and jovial. One day propose chesadu , I like him too, so yes chepanu, OK chepina thawarta behaviour lo full change, he started neglecting me. Thanaki career medha focus ledhu. Nanu asalu patinchukuneavadu kadhu, I felt very lonely. slow gaa koni months ayindi asalu natho matladaledhu , dani vala maku break up ayindi aa taravta I want to focus on my career and started preparing to go to US. Taravatha nenu M.S cheyataniki NY vachanu, but naku manasu lo guilt undedhi tana gurinchi, Through our mutual friend , thanu vere amai tho relation lo unadu ani thelisindhi. As time passed,I am now working as a lead engineer….. na b.tech friend b’day party, NJ, lo thanu malli kanipinchadu I am shocked to see him, thanaki break up ayi US move ayadu anta, Reason being, naa medha una feelings tho. He said he still have feeling for me. After several proposals, I believed that he changed and said okay again. Nenu ee point lo maa intlo kuda thana gurinchi chepanu. My parents are okay with him i started planning for the marriage and to settle down. Kani tana behavior malli change avatam modalu ayindi. taravta naku thelisindhi enti anti anthanu challa mandhi amailatho parallel ga flirt chesthunadu. Oka roju godava padi thana phone kuda thana mundhe check chesa, messages motham girls tho chats unay. I couldn’t take it. ila red handed ga dhoriki povatam tho nenu straight ga adiganu, thanu naku open minded undali , evvi anni US lo common ani anadu, naku digest kaledhu, US lo common yemmo naku kadhu anni strict ga chepasaa. Thanu dhaniki breack up chepe velepoyadu. I request to all boys, once amai okay chepaka don’t take her for granted, please understand girls feelings also. I think my biggest mistake is giving him the second chance. Please post this confession so that people will learn from it.

420: Na badha evarki chepukovalo telika Ikkada rastuna. Nen master’s last sem lo unapudu ah abbai Australia nundi second master’s cheyadanki US vachadu. Thana behaviour nachi I started to have feelings for him but I never confessed it to him. Kani one fine day after party thane annadu nekosam na girl friend ne odlesta I love you ani. Since I already had feelings for him I said okay even though he didn’t break up with his ex gf. Ikkade pedha mistake chesa. Thanaki break up chepta chepta ani 6 months tarvta finally chepadu, that too after I found that they’re exchanging intimate messages. I forgave and a gave a second chance but the same thing repeated again I caught him. Adgute just edo casual friends laga touch lo unnam nothing more than that but ippud block chesta ani facebook whatsapp and insta lo blocked in front of me. Sare everything going happy ankunte malli okaroju sudden ga baltimore vellali ma friend ae ticket book chesadu annadu. Matter enti ante he went to meet his ex gf in balti. That broke my heart seriously. I don’t know if I’ll be able to trust any guy again in life.

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  1. Reply to Confession 417:

    Bro I am just like you. But I do not know how to post to your comment in specific.Janalu 100k – 150k jobs thechkune time lo 60k tho full time undi happy ga undevadni, li8 ga work, ekva vacations, every year india trip..ive na requirements. I do not have any goals to get the name, fame,designation or high salary in the corporate world. Believe me you are not alone!! Cheers

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    417: Idhi love/pelli confession kaadu. Evaritho nu share cheyani oka feeling. Life lo peddaga goals leni vallalo nenu okadini. Let it happen (chuddam le) anukone category. Adrustam kodhi masters complete chesa, full time vachindi(maree beebatsam ina salary kuda kaadu) . Kani naaku india vellipovali ane feeling chala gattiga undhi. Ala ani parents tho undadaniki kaadu. Naaku india lo places thiragali ane korika (ala ani baaga dabbulu unnay anukunnaru emo, antha scene ledhu). US ki enduko connect avvaledhu nenu. May be explore cheyakapovadam vallano, bhayam vallano telidhu gani.. India ne happy place naaku. Vichitram entante.. ela sampadinchali ane thoughts lev gani, pelli cheskunnaka vache ammay ni ela chuskovalo ane thoughts matram pushkalam ga unnay. Asala naa doubts enti ante, naa lanti vallu untara??peddaga career goals lekunda, ekkuva dabbulu lekapoina happy ga undali anukone vallu? PS. Idhi page lo post chesthe kinda comments lo naa lanti vallu evarina unnaru emo ani telusukuni konchem bharosa tho unta.

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