Desi Lolli Confessions 541-550

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541: 33M ! Bhayya na kastam evadiki raakudadu. Em cheyalo no idea , evaraina konchem suggestions istaremo ani Ikkada raasthunna. Please post this. Inko 2 months lo na marriage , ammai baane innocent undi , baane maatladuthundi, my family is happy that I am finally getting married. But the girl is 9 years younger to me so I guess she knows nothing about me , has no idea , a bit dumb and is just imagining a happy life in the US. But problem is I love a girl since College it’s been 15 years, we broke up in college and she got married and then got divorced and we connected again and in touch for past 7 years. I have one clarity ,aa ammaitho na life Chala baaguntundi , very understanding and I can be myself but my parents will never accept. I hurt her badly but there is nothing I can do. Anduke I agreed to marry another girl but it’s killing me if I have taken a right decision or no . What if this new girl does not understand me and I end up regretting it ? I am already engaged and I talk to her daily . I think I will be fine moving ahead with marriage but I am terribly worried. Someone please help me put some perspective?

542: Hey ! I dont know meeru ee confessions ani enduku create chesaro but its helping many people to just vent out their pain here. Thank you so much first of all. And coming to my confession same shit love chesa oka abbaini chala ante chala sincere ga but baga bell chesadu. I am a very independent woman entha ante due to few experiences nen yevari dagarnunchi em adagalenu like help financially or emotional help anything adagalenu but nannu adgithe help cheydam lo first unta. Tanu na future inka life long partner ani ankunna so aa kashtam vachina i was there for him every single time financial ga and emotional ga. Tanu kuda 2 years caring unde spending time with me aa little things wowww ankunna but slowly he started to maintain distance, nakosam kanisam idi chesa ani cheppadaniki kuda em ledu , ma whole relation lo oke oka diary milk chocolate echadu anthe, tanu financial ga konchem poor ani nen aa roju byta thippu gifts evvu ani adagaledu only tanu time spend chesthe enough ankunedanini, but tanaki emina need unte one week full sweet caring oscar level performance untadi nen inka full nibbi mode on oh my boyfriend loves me ani ponile edo tension lo avoid chesadu ani malli nammesi vadiki intha amount kavali ani adgithe ventane think cheykunda ichesedanini ee 5 years relation lo not once have i spent my money for myself no social life nothing but vadu roju chill avthadu valla friends tho nen question kuda cheyakudadhu…but recent i’ve come to my senses vadu vere ammai tho nibba nibbi performance esthunnadu ani telisaka, so i took stand for myself no cheppadam start chesa, nakosam minimum oka call cheyavu , poni call vadiley oka message open cheydanike time ledu nen mathram neeku nen 9 to 5 kashtapadi sampadinchindi motham enduku evvali ani open ga matladesariki inka reverse blame start chesadu but … Emotionally chala drain ipoya idi breakup cheskovala leka kurchuni matladukuni tanaki ardham iyela cheppala ane confusion lo unna…Basic ga nen happy lenu so break up cheppadam one sec pani but yevariki ina zero nunchi malli inko relation start cheyyadam ante i cant even imagine and im just going through hell ..oka 6 months nunchi ee confusion thone untunna tanatho. I dont have any friends to vent this out and get a solution , hence ekkada im sharing

543: Hey ! I dont know meeru ee confessions ani enduku create chesaro but its helping many people to just vent out their pain here. Thank you so much first of all. And coming to my confession same shit love chesa oka abbaini chala ante chala sincere ga but baga bell chesadu. I am a very independent woman entha ante due to few experiences nen yevari dagarnunchi em adagalenu like help financially or emotional help anything adagalenu but nannu adgithe help cheydam lo first unta. Tanu na future inka life long partner ani ankunna so aa kashtam vachina i was there for him every single time financial ga and emotional ga. Tanu kuda 2 years caring unde spending time with me aa little things wowww ankunna but slowly he started to maintain distance, nakosam kanisam idi chesa ani cheppadaniki kuda em ledu , ma whole relation lo oke oka diary milk chocolate echadu anthe, tanu financial ga konchem poor ani nen aa roju byta thippu gifts evvu ani adagaledu only tanu time spend chesthe enough ankunedanini, but tanaki emina need unte one week full sweet caring oscar level performance untadi nen inka full nibbi mode on oh my boyfriend loves me ani ponile edo tension lo avoid chesadu ani malli nammesi vadiki intha amount kavali ani adgithe ventane think cheykunda ichesedanini ee 5 years relation lo not once have i spent my money for myself no social life nothing but vadu roju chill avthadu valla friends tho nen question kuda cheyakudadhu…but recent i’ve come to my senses vadu vere ammai tho nibba nibbi performance esthunnadu ani telisaka, so i took stand for myself no cheppadam start chesa, nakosam minimum oka call cheyavu , poni call vadiley oka message open cheydanike time ledu nen mathram neeku nen 9 to 5 kashtapadi sampadinchindi motham enduku evvali ani open ga matladesariki inka reverse blame start chesadu but … Emotionally chala drain ipoya idi breakup cheskovala leka kurchuni matladukuni tanaki ardham iyela cheppala ane confusion lo unna…Basic ga nen happy lenu so break up cheppadam one sec pani but yevariki ina zero nunchi malli inko relation start cheyyadam ante i cant even imagine and im just going through hell ..oka 6 months nunchi ee confusion thone untunna tanatho. I dont have any friends to vent this out and get a solution , hence ekkada im sharing

544:India lo unnapudu nak oka BF undevadu (4years), nenu us vachaka video calls chestu long distance maintain chesam, Inthalo nak us lo oka atanu close ayadu and ah time lo I did a mistake and cheated with him, ela chepalo teliyaledu but eventually he got to know and breakup ipendi, After some years of mental manipulation and herassment us atani tho kuda breakup aipendi. Ippudu India lo unna na ex us vastunadu, out of guilt I helped him financially. I am very much interested in going back to a relationship with him and so is he. But relationship Loki velte adi sustain avtada ? Ma madya e godava ina aite nu na meda cheat chesav ante na deggara matalu undavu, I’m 26 intlo already matches antunaaru, atanu 25 ye Inko 3 years varaku marriage pere raadu. I know I did a very big mistake by cheating on him but am I doing another mistake by going back to him ? If I go back to him what are the chances that relationship will survive ?

545: 2020 when Covid started matrimony app lo profile upload chesa in two weeks I got a match some reason that didn’t work later I waited for few days. Then inko match insta lo request vachindi Ala texting then calls. Inka deep talks start ayinapudu past relationships gurinchi aduguthe adi chepi chepanatu chepadu sarele evariki undavu past anukunanu Same state lo unam so we used to meet now and then Matter ki vaste he used to talk to his ex at the same time. He blocks her when he comes to meet me Oka roju na degara unapude ex msg vachindi i left from there later he told that ame inka move on avaledu Anduke chesindi I’ll block her anadu Ok anukuna.. asalu ah ammai ki telidu that he is in matrimony and looking for a bride to marry ani Ah ammai ni pelli cheskunta ani promise chesadu anta kani edo china issue tho goddava ayi Naku Nuv Vadu anadu Anta she thought he will come back China fight eh kada ani cut cheste eh sir already ammai la tho matalu dates tinder app lo undadam ani chesadu.. long distance relationship kabati agaleka tinder lo ammailu ani anadu vala ex tho…girls be careful when saying yes to a guy.. past relationships unte okay kani Ela two timing when you already have girl friend is not right! Trust honesty anedi undali eh relation lo aina Oka ammai tho matladutu inko ammai ni Ela manage chestaro.. there are people with true feelings too don’t break that trust

546: I never thought I would write here… but admin garu please post this. Nenu US ki ochi 5 years avuthundhi. Nenu lower middle class family ani cheppachu but very bright student ni. Chala manchi unversity lo admission ochindhi. Baga motivation undedi.. society lo respect undali antey relatives lo respect undali ana I have to earn money and US is a land of opportunities ani.. Chala kasi undedi. One year lo masters complete chesanu and master’s lo undagane full time kottanu. All good ani anukona.. Ammai ayyesariki intlo insecurities perigayi.. especially relatives maa parents ni baga poke chesevalu. Oka ammai US lo undi lakhs lo sampadisthey mee mata vinnadhu ani oka negative thoughts induce chesaru.. So H1B rakaundane I ended up marrying. Ippudu start ayyindhi naa daridram. Job change and location change flexibility Ledu. Spouse visa status antantha matram eh. Tana meeda dependent convert avvalenu aa relationship Chala fucked up. 4 consecutive years try chesanu oka H1-B application vesthu full time company through.. pick avvaledu. India ki vellalenu. Mana USICS garu baga money chesukovadaniki $10 tho ne H1-B registration chesukovachu ani eppudu announce chesaro… shuru ayyindhi picha picha ga duplicate registrations, fake registrations… ippatike second masters chesthuna time lo oka employer dorikadu admin garu… naa manana Nenu full time job chesukonta untey vale approach ayyi naa Peru meeda multiple registrations chesi and pick ayyindi ani $20k aduguthunaru admin garu..! H1B vadulokoleka $20k kattaleka , tirigi india ki vellaleka…edusthuna oka abhagyuralu.. monna evaro india lo 80L salary sampadisthuna amazon india lo…ani post chesaru admin garu… naa kalalo Neelu tirigayi…. Please andi… ikkada roju brathakaleka sachipothuna valani Ila posts chesi sampadhu ani cheppandhi..

547: Idi aite love confession kadu and nen America lo kuda lenu. Na badha endante nak vunna cousins andar btech lu chesi america ki ellipotunnaru kontamandi ellipoinaru. Oka cousin aite inka American poinaka 2 nd day ke mammalni pikesindi instagram nunchi full on attitude lo vundi.mari enta ante oka transformation vedio cheyochu ame meeda Koncham cheppu bayya ameki america pote kommulu m ravu mem kuda manushulame ani 🫣😬

548: Hi…mito okati share cheyalanipinchindi.nenu India lo unapudu strict parents tho unnanu…pedda freedom ledu protective parents kada…bagane chadivale kani…. Cinemalo chusinatu college life oohinchukunna…edo oka happy days movie laga…asalu ala ledu reality lo😅…okka relationship ledu emi ledu…evaru nachaledu kuda…Us ravali chala pattudala undedi… freedom kosam.. adoka kotta prapancham la… Vachanu! Chala freedom ape valle leru. Kontamandi nacharu valtho happy moments unay…partylu+pubs+ drinks anni….na university first year, oka beautiful story laga anipinchindi…cheyali anipinchinavvani chesa… Second year lo oka goppa manishini kalisa…chala nerchukuna vala valla…😕…a sodi endukule…cut cheste pelli gola😫…bhayamesindi bhaya…inta enjoy chesane ela ani…eduko telusa? …nakoka vichitramina pattudala bhaiyah….nenu pelli cheskune vallaki na gurinchi motham teliyali aina nannu istapadali ani… Broadminded undali…nanu nannu ga istapadali …no filters ani (nijam chepalante nenu edanta valaki chepalsina avasaram ledu but adento nenu inte…) kontamandito matlada…unaru kani emo chepali anipiledu…namakam raledu emo….last ki ma amma evaru dorakaru nu anni cheptanu ante annaru anta open minded undaru evaru undaru anaru bhaya 😔 pelliee vaddu anukuna…. Lastkiiiiii….okalu dorikaru exact ga nala alochistaru…broad minded…na gurinchi motham chepaa edi vadala ledu….prapancham lo andaru judge chestaru anevanni unay andulo….ina asalu judge cheyaledu…inka open ga matladam e topic ina…oka topic vaste controversial ga tana alochana enti enduku ala ane curiosity tho eddaram matldtam… healthy conversation antaremo mari telidu kani… asalu a feel e vere telusa.. mana mind lo unadi exact ga chepagalige freedom… Ipudu happyga unanu and prapancham lo konchem open minded una vallu unarani namakam vachindi…chudam ela untundo future lo….Sare veltuna mari Be Kind💛 Itlu melo okallu

549:confession kadu kani, just want to express my honest opinion on typical middle class Indian parents on this pelli topic. Young age lo love ane topic ki dooram ga unchi, baaga chaduvkovali, job cheyyali, Independent ga undali ani nerpistharu. job ochina tarvatha, pelli topic teesi evari meeda aina interest unda ani adugutharu. Poni cheppina tarvatha, they’ll find 100’s of reasons to reject like cast, money, horoscopes etc. Akkade sagam love meeda interest potundi. 27-28 years ochaka Inka relatives andaru pelli cheyyamani force chestunnappu malli start chestharu, we’ll find someone for you ani. Akkada kuda set avvakapotunte, appudu malli adugutharu neeku evari meeda interest leda ani. Age ayipoyaka Manaki nachinavallu dorakaka, dorikina vallu manaki nachutaro ledo ardam kaka ila oka loop lo kottukuntunnam.

550:Nenu btech first year lo undaga naku oka ammai parichayam aindi. Apat daka nenu life lo epudu eh ammai tho matladaledu friendship cheyaledu.. Ah taruvata ah ammai naku chala close aindi. Naku adi premo snehamo teliyaka chala confuse aiyanu. Tanu nato chala baga matladedi. Propose chedam ani tana bday roju chocolates ichi chepdam ankuna, but she told she already had a boy friend. Heart break aindi. Sarle ani I waited untill maybe she breaks up with her bf. Entaina mana mentality maradu haha. Taruvata nenu MS ochanu. Next vacation apudu India elinapudu I proposed nenu ninu pelli cheskunta ani direct ga chepanu eh sodi undakunda. Apatki she was on very bad terms with her BF. she told she will think about me. Chala kasta padi ameni US rapinchanu masters kosam. Ame masters chesi job techkundi. She finally agreed my love. Ah tarvata ohcindi asalaina chikku.ma intlo intercaste marriage opkoledu. Chala suffer aiyamu. two years varku fight chesi ma intlo opinchanu.Nenu full time job kanna ekuva ma intlo opidaniki kastapadda lol. tanu ante naku chala chala istam. mothanki na badha pada leka ma intlo opkunaru. oche june 2022 ma pelli set aindi. rendu yella krushi yenimidhi yella anubandham, lucky ga dorkina H1B visa slot, never loose hope, enni kastalu ochina manamu kastapadedi dakke tirutadi. Please bless us!!

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  1. this is for 541… dude first have some clarity you are getting married to someone that’s a huge commitment..you don’t have any right to spoil that girl’s life(to whom you are getting married rn) if you feel deep down in your heart that your ex is good for u and worth it fight for her.
    but one thing don’t enter into marriage without being “HAPPY” . talk to her talk to her about everthing that life in usa is not easy easy .. tell her about your experiences and stuff.. get to know her ..and one thing dont ever see her like “low” you never know about a person just by simply few talks .. talk to her and mainly yourself HONESTLY ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT !

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