Desi Lolli Confessions 561-570

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561:I got married 1 year back and came to usa on dependent visa 6 months back. I really like my husband a lot. He too love me and epudu eh complaint, godava padatam cheyaledu. But he doesn’t speaks much. Always tana lokam lo ne untadu. Many times I argued and tried to request him to speak. Tana friends, family tho unna enthusiasm natho matledetapudu undadu anipinchindi. Ee 6 months lo ee oka Vishayam valla Chala sarlu godava ayindi and tarvata nene sorry chepatam, request Cheyatam. From 1 month, nenu Edina complaint Cheste requesting way lo chepataniki chusina, he is saying manaki set avatle divorce or counseling podam. Naku peace of mind kavali, na valla kadu eh godavalu, dramalu, naku ni mida mottam poindi ani antunadu. Nakuda eh godavalu oddu but eh country lo Maltede oke oka person my husband. And I don’t want to separate. I am scared that epudu emi ayi nanu odilestado ani. I am scared that our relationship should not break. Any suggestions to make him and myself happy in this relation. I want to stay with him my whole life. Thanks

562: Naku 2017 lo matrimony site thorugh oka match ochindi he liked me and i liked him by seeing pics after than valla mother vachi chira petaru and they said valla abbai ki hand chinna problem undi ani but naku thanu nachadu i didnt care about it because memu baga connect inam tarvata 8months ki vachadu ma vallaki ina nachaledu because of hand and legs kuda konchm problem undi ani oddu ante oddu annaru a parents ki ina daughter ki manchi abbai ne evali ani untundi kada ala annaru but nenu strong ga undi cheskuna travata vallu accept chesi mamalni baga chuskunaru because naku nachadu after that naku visa rejections inay 3times f2 visa nenu ma intlone unanu valla parents natho mataladledu nenu wait chesa 3yrs thanu natho sariga mataldevadu kadu nenu job techukuna ala job cheskunta ina istam ani wait chesa because thanu india ranu annadu h1b approve iyevarku travata h1 vachaka ma vallaki chapadu me ammai ne tiskelthanu baga untam ani US vellamu ma vallu support chesi maku kavalsinavi echi pamparu ochina dagara nundi 5months maku chala godavalu inay me daddy ala annaru nannu hand bale ani me mummy annaru ela ela morning godava padda evng cinema ko restaurant ki vellevalam nenu thanaki part time chesi help chesedani money wise but thanaki apudu nenu chesedi value cheyledu last one week back function ani india tiskochi divorce kavali antunadu understanding ledu niku nenu lekka ledu ani reasons chapadu anadri mundu me parents mata vinledu nannu cheskunav na mata ela vintav ela annadu last ki divorce papers mida sign cheyakpothe na name rasi sucide cheskunta annadu.Enka naku malli pelli ela ithado chustha ani kuda annadu Nenu wait chesindi ma vallatho fight chesindi em consider cheyledu and anadri mundu ela chapadu nenu thana hand baledu ani torture chesedani ani chapadu chala bhada vesindi chesedi em leka thanaki kavalsindi istuna atleast ela ina happy ga untadu ani .

563:Hey All. Nenu Hyderabad lo reputed MNC lo work chestu happy ga unna oka ammaini. Recent ga maa intlo pelli sambandalu choostam annaru as usual ga chala excite iyi ok ani cheppesa. Perrayyalu perammalu matches tesku vastunnaru. Nen almost ochina vatilo maximum vatiki ok cheppa. But first WhatsApp lo na profile forward cheyagane height ledu, colour ledu, hair long ga ledu, dowry oka 5cr ivvandi, next generation kooda malli ilane unte ela anduke not interested andi annaru. Deniki kooda ok becoz evari requirements vallavi. But oka match parents maatladukoni next step ki forward iyyaka chooskunnakam and ah fellow ki recent ga lockdown lo fix ina alliance break indi. Eeerojullo fix ina marriages break avvadam common anukoni ok cheppesa ah abbai ok annadu but anta ok engagement dates choopinchukundam ane time ki sudden ga no ani enduku annado naaku ippatiki ardam kaaledu. Tanani okasare choosa and maatlada but manchi connection anipinchindi telikundane naa thoughts lo na manasulo fix ipoyadu but sudden ga no anesariki it took me a month to become normal. Pellichupul choosaka time teskoni ina yes/no ani cheppandi but ila okasari yes ani konni days iyyaka no ani cheppakandi ah ammai/abbai ki valla family valla ki emotional ga recover avvadaniki chala time padutundi. Ilanti situations choose sariki naaku nka marriage pine interest poindi. Naaku ardam kaadu asalu abbailaki em kavalo vallake telida??? leda telsi kooda clarity leka confuse avtara??? Andaru oka sai pallavi/Majili lo samantha/ Aakasham nee haddura lo baby lanti wife kavali antaru but same alanti candidate ye pelli chupul lo chooste moham lo pimples unnai ani sai pallavi ni, short ga undi ani majili sravani ni, cute ga kadu laavu ga undi ani baby(ANH actress) ni reject chestaru. Nen cheppedi enti antey manchi mukam kanna manchi gunam minna(alochinchandi) .So my sincere request to all the boys and girls emiti antey meku elanti vallu kavalo munde decide avvandi iyyake intlo vallaki pellichupulaki ready ani cheppandi. Choosaka time teskoni ina either yes or no ani cheppandi antey kani ok ani cheppi hopes pettakandi no ani cheppi manasu viragottakandi. Anyways all the best to all the single sinthakayalu. Meeku manchi partner meeru anukunna lanti partner dorkali ani korukuntunanu.

564:Its not a confession, feelings of a boy that he want to express for a girl but unable to express.Story enti antey thanu na masters mate from starting of college eppati dhaka friends but naku thana midha feelings unnayi but thanaki unnayo ledho telidhu ,nenu motham share chesukunta thanatho thanu kuda share chesthadhi but feelings express cheyadhu,eppudu na masters aypoyndhi verey place ki velina thanani miss avuthuna ,naku thanatho time spent cheyatam istham thanu kuda spent chesthadhi but thanaki feelings unnayo ledhu telidhu,nenu chala sarlu chepdham anukuna but ma friendship pothadhi ani chepaledhu ,thanu mi page confessions chaduvuthadhi so hope thanu chaduvuthundhi ani anukuntuna..

565: Intercaste. Chala kastapadi Love Marriage cheskunam. Cut chesthe, pelli ayyi only 5 months now. Starts with discussion, chinnaga arguments ayithayi. Godavalu, arguments ivvani married life lo common ye kada ani anukunte, he started abusing with bad words ‘De***y’. Pelli ki mundu kuda use chesevadu, but pattinchukokapothunde. Pelli ayaka kuda use chesadu. I was hurt, told him not to use again and 2-3 days matladukole. Then, same thing again after one month. I was hurt badly, nenu oka chadukunna ammayini, independent, working, parents ki duram ga US lo untunna, chala fight chesi istapadi mari pelli cheskunna. I have some bloody self-respect man. I mean using bad words?? C’mon Is this how you’ve have been taught from your parents? Is this how you talk to your family members when angry or upset? Yes, Pelli cheskunna.. wife ayithe ila enni sarlu thittina padathara? I can’t tolerate this. I am not used to such bad words from childhood. Nenu chepedi okkate, there should be mutual and equal respect in every marriage – love or arranged. Women must be respected. Never lose your self-respect!! #Respectyourwife

566:This is not a confession but may be I can call it frustration, when I first came for masters around 8 years ago, I made a friend, who later became a close friend, we both got our H1 visa and after a year I got married and then the following year he got married, and our wives too became friends and later due to his personal family issues he moved to India. We were still in contact with them, recently 3 years back they came to USA again and he got job in the same city where I work, my wife and I helped them in moving and settling down in the city. As they don’t have many friends here, we introduced them to all our friends in the city and took them to all parties along with us, things were going good. However, the real problem started at a later stage, my friend and his wife started taking us for granted, as everyone is having work from home, they started staying at our place, initially we were ok with that as we thought they will just stay for couple of days and leave but they started staying at our home for weeks and not going back, we didn’t know how to covey them to leave, they used to not help my wife in any household work and in return used to add some extra work for her, we both used to be tired by end of day doing office work and cooking and house chores and there work too, it’s basic common sense to clean the plates we eat, they don’t even do that, they used to throw all the chocolate wrap and trash all around the house and we used to clean, the sad part is , this is still continuing, we are not understanding what to do, none of my other friends are liking there behavior, not understanding how to convey them to stop coming to our place and stay for weeks continuously, they stay at our home and mock us, they started mocking my wife by telling that we are not taking proper care of them, not prioritizing them in every event, etc. my wife is feeling very bad and I am not liking it too, just feel like getting rid of them. Understood that being good and helping is also bad. Just felt like sharing it.

567: Bhayya, I never thought I’d be giving such a confession. I usually read the confessions here and used to think to myself Bhayya enti ila unnaru janaalu ani but Bhayya naa life lo biggest revelation recent ga ayndhi. Me n my girlfriend came to do masters together but she got admission in a better university than mine. We decided we’ll do long distance. Thanu first india nunchi accommodation chuskundhi but it turned out that her roommates aren’t really good. Then valla course lo oka ammay parichayam ayndhi thinaki who is in a committed relationship. Couple iddare 1bhk lo untaru so she decided to move in with them. Appatnunchi she used to tell me things like how good they were and everything. Sem break lo she came to meet me. Somehow she told me that she thinks she’s polyamorous and that a girl in her workplace approached her. I was like wtf are u even talking about, it’s a choice u make and it’s not something people are born with ani. I told her I’m not into all that shit ani. she went off abruptly saying I’m not giving her time and that I’m not being the person as I used to be. Thanu went to her frds place and stayed there for the break. I went to meet her and tried to make things work. Okkasari vellagaane set aypoindhi. Again vallaki next sem start and she went back to her place. Akkadiki vellaka malli she used to fight with me that I wasn’t giving her time(twist enti ante nenenni sarlu text chesina she used to be busy saying studying ani or at library or some other reason) and that she must go ahead and marry a guy who’s already well settled. I thought okay bhayya tappemundhi née security nu chuskodamlo but used to remind her why we came together. Ala godava avadam malli nene ilanti things remind chesi set cheskodam ayyedhi. And nen work lo unnappudu she used to be free and thanu parttime lo unnappudu I used to be free. Timings antha match ayyevi kaavu. But we used to talk daily in the nights but some days she would just not respond to my texts or calls and she would respond really late like 2-3 in the morning and also we live in different time zones(I’m ahead of her). So all this while I blamed myself for not being able to give enough time, not being able to take her to trips at the moment as we both are students and everything. Cut chesthe 3rd sem break lo we got married in India. Then we came back and went to our locations, last sem ayyi job search ki oka chota undhaam anukune time lo biggest ever drama packed punch in my face. She’s been having an affair with her roommate( the committed guy) since an year, then his girlfriend came to know and they tried to stay away but somehow they changed her mind too and they have been in a threesome relation since then it seems. I confronted her and she told half truth, I confronted the other two who are F’ing 1000 miles away and they told me the whole truth that she pursued both of them and that they have been having fights since then. The guy had the audacity to actually ask me why he should even answer my questions. But then sallabaddadu. Now this girl says she’s sorry and that she tried to tell me so many times about polyamory but I dint respond in a way she expected anta so she kept silent but she kept on having fun. Now I’m just stuck with a cheating gaslighting toxic B. I don’t even know how to tell families and what to do exactly. B only could stay loyal for 4 months before she did what she did. And all this while even after the marriage, they’ve been in a relationship it seems. How cruel is that towards me, and why should I go through all of this just cause I loved her. Bhayya us lo evariki undavu Bhayya options or attractions, but when you’re committed to a person you just stay loyal or if it’s not happening you just put and end to that shit and then pursue whoever the F u want to. Kaani ilaanti things chesi sorry naaku oka chance ivvu ante em cheyyali asalu. Hope I could deliver what all I wanted to share. I’m in a F’ing rage writing this thing even.The thing is, I feel like travelling to that state to punch the guy. And when it comes to her, I don’t even want to lay my finger on this B.

568: I was in a relationship with someone in my btech who loved me and proposed to me, but I refused at first. However, after a while, I fell in love with him. We were together for 2 to 3 years. Then, out of nowhere, he said he didn’t want to marry me due of family concerns, and we stopped communicating. As a result, I was really depressed. He called me again after a few years and began talking to me, telling me that we could be friends. I felt horrible, but I said okay to keep the lines of communication open. As time passed, I learned that he was dating another girl when we were both in btech, and that they had broken up. I was first devastated by this, but I continued to communicate with him on a regular basis. We came to America to pursue our master’s degree. We maintained a healthy relationship that gave the impression that we were in love. This is fine with me. However, I recently got to know that while he was drunk, he was discussing his split with another female with our mutual acquaintances. After hearing this, I was taken aback. I assumed he had forgotten about her, and we had been living happily together for the past two years. I’m not sure what to think of him whether he’s misinforming others about us or whether he’s still in love with that girl.

569: **Estam Leni Pelli cheskovatam correct ae na ??** Back story, Intilo matches chudatam start chesaru. Masters iyaka cheskunta Ana. Okay ani after masters oka abbayi number echaru. 1st day Phone talks lo drinking topic vachindi, yes I drink ani Chepa. Anthe valla intiki phone chesi chepesadu. He said he wouldn’t. Valla intilo vallu phone chesi manners lekunda matladaru to my family. Apati nundi start iyndi Bhaya ma intilo naku. Pelli process speed up chesaru paruvu anukuntu. Oka abbayi ni tesukuni vachi, ela unadu anaru. Okay unadu Ana. Anthe Pelli fix cheskuni vachesaru. Estam Ledu.Asalu Enduku Ala chepakunda final chesaru ante, Edo story chepthunaru. Epudu a final chesina abbayi mataladataniki trying. Mundu una experience tho naku em chepe interest and opika Ledu. But intilo pelli fix chesaru. Epudu cancel cheyatam avadu Anta. For paruvu reasons. Intilo vallu kuda Epudu feel avthunaru after seeing me crying but talk out avatam valla we can’t do anything anaru. What should I do ? Is paruvu important or peace?? Or paruvu valle peace vasthunda? Or marriage cheseskunte set iypothunda life ? Please I need answers ! Chepu Tillu Itlu Radhika, 24

570: Oka Orphan Story bhayya, ooha telisi teliyakunda ne parents chanipoyaru, relatives andaru pencharu, koncham push cheskuni uncles help teskuni US vacha MS and then manchi job. Epudu evariki nen ila ani cheppukonu, nak family vundi parents working ani cheptu vunta, Kani chinna velithi life motham, epudu edo vethukuthu vunde vadni, home ane feeling epudu ledu. 2.5 years back oka ammayi parichayam aindi, anni share cheskunnam thanki anthak mundu breakup aindi so natho matladatam better annadi and initialy naku elanti feelings levu. Slow ga chala chala attach ayya, iddaram honest ga vundam ankundam and naku chinnaptnundi vunna ah missing feeling poindi, chala confidance vachindi life lo manchi job kuda ochindi. ame epudu nak promise cheyyaledu, but sudden ga oka roju i am leaving nuvu chala help ayyav annadi. Nen shock ayya tharwatha adigithe thana ex ni kalisanu annadi. 2.5 years bhayya, first time ame na meda jaali padithe bavundu ani vundi na pain ni acknowledge cheyyalsindi, Nen malli back to zero. nakantu inkevaru leru vethiki vethiki alasipoina feeling, health JOB knowledge anni pothunnai inka fight chesindi chalu india velpooi evarain orphan ni adopt cheskundam ankuntunna. parents expire ainapudu nen apalekapoya and i lost everything, ipudu kuda i lost her and am helpless, Ila parents leni vallaki na failure nundi lession entante, miru val lekunda ne vundali ala vundagalgithe ne vere valki attach avvandi. manaki home lekunda verey valani invite cheyyalem.

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  1. Response to#565
    First of all salute !! Intercaste marriage oppinchi pelli daka teskellinanduk !! And i totally agree that using D word not on wife but on any person is not at all acceptable !! But meeru anatu pelliki mundu nunde alavatu unapd why didnt you try to stop him ? Apudu meeru apaledu so alane continue chesthunadu. Appude api unte ipd ala anevada ? . “ mokka ai vanganidi maanu ai vanguna “ 😉. On a serious note TRY TO COMMUNICATE LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU EXACTLY FEEL ABOUT THIS SEEK APPROPRIATE COUNSELING

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